Thursday, July 29, 2021

Christian Atheist -Session - 9 - When You Believe In God But Not In His Church




The Christ Church Wednesday Bible Study Group is going through the book The Christian Atheist by Craig Groeschel.  A Christian Atheist is someone who believes in God but lives as if He doesn't exist.  If you are courageous enough to admit that sometimes you act like a Christian Atheist along with us we can shed some of our hypocrisy and live a life that truly brings glory to Christ.  

A Christian Atheist might sound like someone who’s got a faith problem or perhaps at least a spiritual confusion issue. But the core problem for the Christian Atheist Isn't belief; it’s intimacy. The Christian Atheist doesn’t really know God very well.

Many Christian Atheists don’t really believe in the church. There are lots of Christians that say they don’t do church.  They don’t do church for various reasons.  They had a bad experience with a church member, or pastor, they fell for a false teaching and got hurt, they don’t see any difference in church goers and people who don’t go or are not even believers, they think they can read the bible and gain as much knowledge by themselves as if they went to church every week.  The Church repulses them because they feel it’s full of hypocrites. 


Other people accept that people are hypocrites by nature; they just can’t stand churches talking about money.
       
Others steer clear because church is irrelevant to their everyday lives. They tried church before, and it didn’t make a difference. So why bother?
       
Maybe they even want to attend church, but when they do, they feel even guiltier than they did before. The pastor and all the other put-together, perfect people just make them feel worse about themselves.


These are the notes to Session 9 the last session in our study

To get your copy of the book click this LINK or the image of the book at the end of my notes for the study


This is an extra from our study last week You Believe in God but Don’t Share Your Faith.


The Core Issue - Greg Laurie Harvest Ministries in Riverside 

 

“‘Sir,’ the woman said, ‘you must be a prophet. So tell me, why is it that you Jews insist that Jerusalem is the only place of worship, while we Samaritans claim it is here at Mount Gerizim, where our ancestors worshiped?’”

—John 4:19–20


Sometimes when we share our faith, people want us to go off on a tangent. When we start talking to them about their need for God, they’ll come back with questions like, “Well, if God is good, why does He allow suffering? And what about a person who has never heard the gospel? What will God do with them?”


While you’re answering one question, they’re moving on to another. It’s a diversionary tactic.


That’s what happened as Jesus spoke with the Samaritan woman by the well. She was getting uncomfortable, so she tried to get Him off the subject. She said, “So tell me, why is it that you Jews insist that Jerusalem is the only place of worship, while we Samaritans claim it is here at Mount Gerizim, where our ancestors worshiped?” (John 4:20 NLT).


The Jews and the Samaritans had an ongoing debate about where they were to worship God. The Jews, of course, believed they should worship God in the temple that He had established in Jerusalem.


Meanwhile, the Samaritans had their own temple and their own views.


Jesus could have easily gone down this road, because it was a heated debate. But He answered it very succinctly, pointing out what was right. Then He brought it back to the big issue: “For God is Spirit, so those who worship him must worship in spirit and in truth” (verse 24 NLT).


He brought this woman back to what really mattered, what was really essential. Her initial cynicism gave way to curiosity, and ultimately, she believed on the spot.


In the same way, when we’re sharing the gospel, we should try to answer questions to the best of our ability. But then we need to bring it back to the core issue: their need for Jesus Christ


When You Believe In God But Not In His Church


When we have been successful in sharing our faith the next thing that we should want to do is make sure that that person is discipled and the church is where that happens. I’m not talking about a building, although a place to assemble is important and with technology that can happen in a number of ways.  I’m talking about the institution, the vehicle that God uses to deliver the gospel to the world and equips its members to deliver it.  


Many Christian Atheists don’t really believe in the church.  They are talking about the institution.


There are lots of Christians that say they don’t do church.  They don’t do church for various reasons.  They had a bad experience with a church member, or pastor, they fell for a false teaching and got hurt, they don’t see any difference in church goers and people who don’t go or are not even believers, they think they can read the bible and gain as much knowledge by themselves as if they went to church every week.  The Church repulses them because they feel it’s full of hypocrites. 


Other people accept that people are hypocrites by nature; they just can’t stand churches talking about money.
       
Others steer clear because church is irrelevant to their everyday lives. They tried church before, and it didn’t make a difference. So why bother?
       
Maybe they even want to attend church, but when they do, they feel even guiltier than they did before. The pastor and all the other put-together, perfect people just make them feel worse about themselves.


In the church there has been a prohibition of talking about certain things or not expressing our feelings when we are hurting is certain areas like money or sex we often putting lipstick on a pig so to speak.  We are masking how we sometimes hurt so we don’t get help.  I used to hear some old time preachers and old time mothers talking about the church being a hospital. Well, if you can’t talk about your sickness, what kind of hospital is it?  Is it only one that deals with the common cold or a stubbed toe and not drug addiction or sex addiction, or depression?

If you can’t bring your deepest problems to the church because you are afraid of what others may say, where people have to pretend that “..their lives are picture-perfect”.  There are two problems that result. 1) the issues or problems will sooner or later come out and either they will result in gossip or the leadership will tell them not to come back until the problem is handled or 2) they can’t take the pressure of trying to put up a false face for the church so they drop out.

“When we meet Christ, we are saved from the penalty of sin, but we do not escape the effects of sin --whether that’s our own sin of other people’s sin or simply the broken world we live in.   Church is the place where we need to go for healing, not the place to pretend that we’re perfect.  It shouldn’t be the place we run from when we feel overwhelmed, it should be the place we run to.  That is where Jesus will meet us and change us.       

Finally, there is the  “super spiritual”.  Their ideals are so high that no church can possibly meet their standards. They have detailed lists of what’s wrong with each church in town. The worship music isn’t “Spirit-led” enough, or it’s too loud, too soft, or too whatever. The sermons are too shallow or too intellectual. The missions program isn’t aggressive enough or it’s all the church talks about. They spend too much money on the building or not enough. Churches, with their mere mortals, can never measure up.


I talked about these people in a sermon on worshiping in spirit and truth.  I said worship isn’t about you anyway.   It’s about carving out time in our busy lives and responding to who God is and what He’s done for us. It’s about a deep, inner spirit response.  Worship doesn’t always mean singing at the top of your lungs, or dancing or shouting. It’s about just entering into His presence and your response to that.


Here’s what God wants in worship.


Isaiah 1:16‭-‬17 NIV Wash and make yourselves clean. Take your evil deeds out of my sight; stop doing wrong.  Learn to do right; seek justice. Defend the oppressed. Take up the cause of the fatherless; plead the case of the widow.


Hosea 6:6 For I desire mercy, not sacrifice, and acknowledgment of God rather than burnt offerings


Micah 6:8 NIV He has shown you, O mortal, what is good. And what does the Lord require of you? To act justly and to love mercy and to walk humbly with your God.

In other words we are to be completely devoted to him and compassionate toward others, not just giving lip service and empty sacrifices. God wants people to actually know him, not just know about him while ignoring what God considers important which is obedience and love. Living a life of obedience and love is what worship is, it’s not just going through the motions: outwardly sacrificing and saying the right things, yet inwardly remaining far from God.


Here’s the thinking of a lot of Christians today.  Who needs church anyway? We can get all the Christian content we need from websites, podcasts, and books—even television and radio.






Here’s The Key, Don’t Go To Church  Be The Church 


To many people, church is a place. It’s a building, bricks and mortar, a destination.  


This is from a sermon too.  


We know that God isn’t confined to a church building or only available at certain times of day. So we don’t have to wait until we come to church or a certain time of day to worship Him.  We don’t even have to wait until we feel spiritual. If we are delighting ourselves in Him we can be confident of His presence all the time.


Psalm 139 says that God's presence can be wherever we  are.


Psalm 139:1‭-‬10 NIV You have searched me, Lord , and you know me.  You know when I sit and when I rise; you perceive my thoughts from afar.  You discern my going out and my lying down; you are familiar with all my ways.  Before a word is on my tongue you, Lord , know it completely.  You hem me in behind and before, and you lay your hand upon me.  Such knowledge is too wonderful for me, too lofty for me to attain.  Where can I go from your Spirit? Where can I flee from your presence?  If I go up to the heavens, you are there; if I make my bed in the depths, you are there.  If I rise on the wings of the dawn, if I settle on the far side of the sea,  even there your hand will guide me, your right hand will hold me fast.


The church is actually God’s chosen vehicle to meet—through other human beings—people's true needs (including our own).


Matthew 22:36-40 (NLT)36  “Teacher, which is the most important commandment in the law of Moses?”37  Jesus replied, “‘You must love the LORD your God with all your heart, all your soul, and all your mind.’38  This is the first and greatest commandment.39  A second is equally important: ‘Love your neighbor as yourself.’40  The entire law and all the demands of the prophets are based on these two commandments.”


The Church allows you to do both, love God and love people, The church needs every believer.  The analogy that Paul uses is that the church is like a body that needs every part.  


Romans 12:4-8 (NLT)4  Just as our bodies have many parts and each part has a special function,5  so it is with Christ’s body. We are many parts of one body, and we all belong to each other.6  In his grace, God has given us different gifts for doing certain things well. So if God has given you the ability to prophesy, speak out with as much faith as God has given you.7  If your gift is serving others, serve them well. If you are a teacher, teach well.8  If your gift is to encourage others, be encouraging. If it is giving, give generously. If God has given you leadership ability, take the responsibility seriously. And if you have a gift for showing kindness to others, do it gladly. 


1 Corinthians 12:12-28 (NLT)12  The human body has many parts, but the many parts make up one whole body. So it is with the body of Christ.13  Some of us are Jews, some are Gentiles, some are slaves, and some are free. But we have all been baptized into one body by one Spirit, and we all share the same Spirit.14  Yes, the body has many different parts, not just one part.15  If the foot says, “I am not a part of the body because I am not a hand,” that does not make it any less a part of the body.16  And if the ear says, “I am not part of the body because I am not an eye,” would that make it any less a part of the body?17  If the whole body were an eye, how would you hear? Or if your whole body were an ear, how would you smell anything?18  But our bodies have many parts, and God has put each part just where he wants it.19  How strange a body would be if it had only one part!20  Yes, there are many parts, but only one body.21  The eye can never say to the hand, “I don’t need you.” The head can’t say to the feet, “I don’t need you.”22  In fact, some parts of the body that seem weakest and least important are actually the most necessary.23  And the parts we regard as less honorable are those we clothe with the greatest care. So we carefully protect those parts that should not be seen,24  while the more honorable parts do not require this special care. So God has put the body together such that extra honor and care are given to those parts that have less dignity.25  This makes for harmony among the members, so that all the members care for each other.26  If one part suffers, all the parts suffer with it, and if one part is honored, all the parts are glad.27  All of you together are Christ’s body, and each of you is a part of it.28  Here are some of the parts God has appointed for the church: first are apostles, second are prophets, third are teachers, then those who do miracles, those who have the gift of healing, those who can help others, those who have the gift of leadership, those who speak in unknown languages.


If you are sitting on your gift then The Church  is missing it like a part of the body missing a finger.  It can’t function at the optimal level without that finger as small and insignificant as you might think it is. It still keeps the body from functioning as God would have it.  


Christian Atheists Are Also Lukewarm Christians And Christ Doesn’t Like Lukewarm Christians 


Many so-called Christians are lukewarm. They want enough of Jesus to get them by, but not so much that they go overboard.


The church in Laodicea described in Revelation 3 is the prototype of lukewarm Christianity.
         
Revelation 3:15-19 (NLT)15  “I know all the things you do, that you are neither hot nor cold. I wish that you were one or the other!16  But since you are like lukewarm water, neither hot nor cold, I will spit you out of my mouth!17  You say, ‘I am rich. I have everything I want. I don’t need a thing!’ And you don’t realize that you are wretched and miserable and poor and blind and naked.18  So I advise you to buy gold from me—gold that has been purified by fire. Then you will be rich. Also buy white garments from me so you will not be shamed by your nakedness, and ointment for your eyes so you will be able to see.19  I correct and discipline everyone I love. So be diligent and turn from your indifference.           

  Lukewarm Christians …
       

 Many so-called Christians are lukewarm…. They want enough of Jesus to keep them out of hell and enough to get into heaven, but not so much of Jesus that he transforms their lives …. They want enough of Jesus to get them by, but not so much that they go overboard.


Most wouldn’t admit that this is all the faith they can manage. We want God’s benefits without changing how we live. We want his best, without our sacrifices.


Lukewarm Christians;


       
          1. Crave acceptance from people more than acceptance

from God.
       
          2. Rarely share their faith in Christ.
       
          3. Do whatever it takes to alleviate their guilt.
       
          4. Think more about life on earth than eternity in heaven.   


           5. Gauge their morality by comparing themselves to others.
       
          6. Want to be saved from the penalty of sin without changing their lives.
       
          7. Only turn to God when they’re in a bind or when they’re in trouble.
       
          8. Give when it doesn’t impinge on their standard of living.
       
          9. Are not much different from the rest of this world.
       
        10. Want the benefits of what Christ did without conforming to who he is.
       
Lukewarm Christians put God on the shelf and say, “I believe in you, but I don’t really need you right now,


Revelation 3:17-19 (NLT)17  You say, ‘I am rich. I have everything I want. I don’t need a thing!’ And you don’t realize that you are wretched and miserable and poor and blind and naked.

18  So I advise you to buy gold from me—gold that has been purified by fire. Then you will be rich. Also buy white garments from me so you will not be shamed by your nakedness, and ointment for your eyes so you will be able to see.19  I correct and discipline everyone I love. So be diligent and turn from your indifference.


Extreme Church


Many Christian Atheists today commit only half heartedly to Christ’s church—if at all.

He doesn’t want us simply to believe in God. He wants us to give our lives to him through his church. In the first church described in Acts 2, “church” wasn’t something people added to their lives. 


Church was the center of their lives. Church was not a physical building; it was a community of people who shared a belief and faith in Christ. 


Their extreme commitment to Christianity contrasts sharply with our attitude today: 


“They devoted themselves to the apostles’ teaching and to the fellowship, to the breaking of bread and to prayer” (Acts 2:42). 


Acts of the Apostles 4:34‭-‬35 NLT There were no needy people amon g them, because those who owned land or houses would sell them and bring the money to the apostles to give to those in need.



They didn’t go to church; they were the church, devoted to God’s Word, God’s people, and God’s mission.


This is what happens when people stop going to church and start being the church, as Jesus intended. Every need in the church can be met by the church.


A Place to Belong


While the church meets physical needs, it also provides a place for us to belong.  A Barna poll revealed that 92 percent of Americans claim to be independent. Though Independence is a goal for many, God never intended for his believers to be independent.
           

He wants us dependent on one another and on him. The apostle Paul writes, “So in Christ We who are many form one body, and each member belongs to all the others” (Rom. 12:5).  As believers in Christ, we are incomplete without the rest of his body—the church. And the church is incomplete without us. We need others, and others need us.


Belonging to a local church also provides accountability, where wiser and more mature Christians can regularly counsel us, mentor us, comfort us, and help us heal. We can confess to God for forgiveness (see 1 John 1:9), but that’s only half of the equation.
           

We also need to confess to other Christians to help us ultimately overcome our sinful habits. James 5:16 says, “Therefore confess your sins to each other and pray for each other so that you may be healed.”



We’re responsible both to hold each other accountable and to encourage one another.


Hebrews 10:24‭-‬25 NLT Let us think of ways to motivate one another to acts of love and good works. And let us not neglect our meeting together, as some people do, but encourage one another, especially now that the day of his return is drawing near.



A Place to Believe 


In addition to belonging, church also gives us a place to grow spiritually. 


Romans 10:17 says, “Faith comes from hearing the message, and the message is heard through the word of Christ.” Our faith grows as we hear God’s Word taught and proclaimed. 


Living out what we've heard solidifies it for us. James 1:22 says, “Do not merely listen to the word, and so deceive yourselves. Do what it says.”


Our Father uses his church to minister to us, to draw us closer to him, and to equip us—these spiritual benefits aren’t just for us. God is transforming his church into extraordinary ministers. He calls us to change lives in our own communities and around the world.


God’s church continues to grow around the world because its people instinctively understand that the church exists not for them but for those who don’t yet know Christ. While the church at its best rarely makes headlines, it is changing lives—and the world—for good. It loves radically, serves sacrificially, and gives extravagantly.


Many Christian Atheists hesitate to join a church because they don’t think there's any way God would work through them and their imperfections. But the Bible says differently


When Jesus called his first followers, he recruited tax collectors, uneducated fishermen, and dangerous revolutionaries. Notice who Jesus did not call: not one rabbi, scribe, or priest. Not one Pharisee or Sadducee, nor any other person from the formal religious establishment of the day. When he chose friends, Jesus surrounded himself with the lonely, the broken, and the overlooked. God is calling you to be a part of his church, to be his church.


If we’re not overboard for him, then chances are we don’t really know him.


It’s time to seek him. It’s time to surrender everything. It’s time to let go of everything in this world.


In Mere Christianity, author C. S. Lewis writes about the problem with being a part-time Christian:
       
The terrible thing, the almost impossible thing, is to hand over your whole self— all your wishes and precautions—to Christ.  We are all trying to let our mind and heart go their own way—centered on money or pleasure or ambition — and hoping, in spite of this, to behave honestly and chastelyand humbly. And that is exactly what Christ warned us you could not do.  


         
Christ says “Give me All. I don’t want so much of your time and so much of your money and so much of your work: I want You. I have not come to torment your natural self, but to kill it…. Hand over the whole natural self, all the desires which you think innocent as well as the ones you think wicked — the whole outfit. I will give you a new self instead. In fact, I will give you Myself: my own will shall become yours.”


When we are open to go wherever the Holy Spirit leads us, he will use us to share the greatest gift of all—eternal life through Christ. And when he does, we may never know on this side of eternity how much of a difference we made.  But someday—on the other side—we’ll know in full.



The Afterward 


WANTING MORE THAN ENOUGH OF JESUS 


Christian Atheists have a lot in common with Goldilocks — we like things not too hot, not too cold, but just right. Yet when it comes to living out our faith, what might feel “just right” to us is what God considers nauseatingly lukewarm. God doesn’t want tepid commitment or a moderate devotion. He doesn’t want us to settle for just-right just-enough or a just-so life in Christ. He wants everything we’ve got — fierce commitment, wholehearted passion, and a blazing heart of love.


The Christian Atheist, page 235


“Whatever it takes” became my heart’s cry. Whatever it takes to know him. Whatever It takes to live like I truly love God. Whatever it takes to love eternity more than this world. Even if I have to fight, scrape, and crawl away from my Christian Atheism Into a genuine, crucified life of faith and radical obedience to Christ, I’ll do whatever it takes. 


Wholly surrendered. Those are beautiful, nourishing words for a God-hungry heart. They mark the beginning of a journey from life as it is to life as it could be. A life of knowing God and allowing yourself to be known by him. Of walking through hardships and loss steadying the hope that God is out to do you only good. Of experiencing the deep love of Christ every day. Of discovering God’s trustworthy provision when you put him in charge of your money and your happiness. These are the kinds of things that lead to the life that is truly life. And isn’t that what you really want? If so, it’s time to jump ship from Christian Atheism and go completely overboard — take a flying leap of white-hot faith and let the God who loves you catch you.
       
Welcome to true Christianity.


Bible Study Audio



Wednesday, July 21, 2021

Christian Atheist - Session 8 - When You Believe In God But Don’t Share Your Faith




The Christ Church Wednesday Bible Study Group is going through the book The Christian Atheist by Craig Groeschel.  A Christian Atheist is someone who believes in God but lives as if He doesn't exist.  If you are courageous enough to admit that sometimes you act like a Christian Atheist along with us we can shed some of our hypocrisy and live a life that truly brings glory to Christ.  

A Christian Atheist might sound like someone who’s got a faith problem or perhaps at least a spiritual confusion issue. But the core problem for the Christian Atheist Isn't belief; it’s intimacy. The Christian Atheist doesn’t really know God very well.

These are the notes to Session 8

Many of us, and this includes me, are reluctant to share our faith with others.  There may be many reasons; we don’t think the time is right; we don’t know what to say; the other person doesn’t want to listen, etc.   

What we must remember is that if we don’t share our faith, it may be the last opportunity for that person.  Plus, the bible says something we should remember.  A person's blood is on our hands if we don’t warn them about disobedience.  

Ezekiel 3:17-19 (NLT)17  “Son of man, I have appointed you as a watchman for Israel. Whenever you receive a message from me, warn people immediately.18  If I warn the wicked, saying, ‘You are under the penalty of death,’ but you fail to deliver the warning, they will die in their sins. And I will hold you responsible for their deaths.19  If you warn them and they refuse to repent and keep on sinning, they will die in their sins. But you will have saved yourself because you obeyed me. 

To get your copy of the book click this LINK or the image of the book at the end of my notes for the study

One reason Satan’s strongholds are so powerful is that they become entrenched. This happens when Satan can get you to buy into the lie that your situation is hopeless. His goal is to get you to believe that by nature you are a drug addict or a manipulator or a negative person, that you are controlled by fear or shame, that nothing will ever change, and so on. Once you give in to and adopt this line of thinking, these fortresses become difficult to remove. Your behavior deteriorates even more since all of us act according to who we believe we are.


The only solution is to tear down these fortresses by “taking every thought captive to the obedience of Christ” (2 Corinthians 10:5). Reprogram your mind and release yourself from captivity. This is how you unleash your full potential and free yourself up to then help other men rise to do the same.


The solution is twofold but straightforward. First, identify Christ’s thoughts on a matter, and secondly, align your own thinking under the rule of His truth. 


Then the truth will set you free (John 8:32).


Stop basing your identity around your “defects.” You say, “It’s just like me to be . . .” or “It’s just the way I am.” The unconscious worry is that if you let go of your hurt, hang-up, or habit, you won’t know who you are anymore. This fear can definitely slow your growth.


Although God could instantly transform you, he has chosen to develop you slowly. 


This is how you see him work throughout the Bible. God allowed the Israelites to take over the Promised Land “little by little” so they wouldn’t be overwhelmed (Deuteronomy 7:22). Jesus was deliberate in developing his disciples. In the same way, God prefers to work in incremental steps in your life.


We are slow learners. People often have to relearn a lesson 40 or 50 times to really get it. The problems keep recurring, and you think, “Not again! I’ve already learned that!” But God knows better. The history of Israel illustrates how quickly we forget the lessons God teaches us and how soon we revert to our old patterns of behavior. We need repeated exposure.


We have a lot to unlearn. Since most of your problems—and all of your bad habits—didn’t develop overnight, it’s unrealistic to expect them go away immediately. There is no pill, prayer, or principle that will instantly undo the damage of many years. It requires the hard work of removal and replacement. The Bible calls it “taking off the old self” and “putting on the new self” (Romans 13:12; Ephesians 4:22-24; Colossians 3:7-10, 14).


Growth is often painful and scary. There is no growth without change, no change without fear or loss, and no loss without pain. Every change involves a loss of some kind. People fear these losses. Even if your old ways were self-defeating, they were at least comfortable and familiar, like a worn-out pair of shoes.


Good habits take time to develop. Your character is the sum total of your habits. You can’t claim to be kind unless you are habitually kind. Your habits define your character.


There is only one way to develop the habits of Christlike character: You must practice them—and that takes time! There are no instant habits. Paul urged Timothy, “Practice these things. Devote your life to them so that everyone can see your progress” (1 Timothy 4:15 GW).


When You Believe In God But Don’t Share Your Faith


Many of us, and this includes me, are reluctant to share our faith with others.  There may be many reasons; we don’t think the time is right; we don’t know what to say; the other person doesn’t want to listen, etc.   


If we somehow feel that the Holy Spirit wants us to share our faith with someone, whether we know them or not, I think that He has somehow prepared the person or the circumstance for us to talk to them.   Remember what Jesus said to His disciples.


Matthew 10:19-20 (NLT)19  When you are arrested, don’t worry about how to respond or what to say. God will give you the right words at the right time.20  For it is not you who will be speaking—it will be the Spirit of your Father speaking through you.


What we have to remember is that if we don’t share our faith it may be the last opportunity for that person.  Plus the bible says something we should remember.  A minister friend of mine says that a person's blood is on our hands if we don’t warn them about disobedience.  Here’s where she gets that;


Ezekiel 3:17-19 (NLT)17  “Son of man, I have appointed you as a watchman for Israel. Whenever you receive a message from me, warn people immediately.18  If I warn the wicked, saying, ‘You are under the penalty of death,’ but you fail to deliver the warning, they will die in their sins. And I will hold you responsible for their deaths.19  If you warn them and they refuse to repent and keep on sinning, they will die in their sins. But you will have saved yourself because you obeyed me. 


There’s an example in the book about Craig going to see the man at the request of his wife to share the gospel in the hope that he would accept Jesus and receive salvation before his death which was imminent.  It’s at the very beginning of Chapter 11.  Craig didn’t want to appear pushy because the guy was an unbeliever so he never broached the subject.  Feeling guilty later he went back the next day and the guy had died.  


Like many of us he looked for the perfect moment to share.  That moment didn’t come for this guy and it may not for people that we know or people that we come into contact with.   


The Great Commission is really a command to Jesus’ disciples to evangelize. 


Matthew 28:18-20 (NLT)18  Jesus came and told his disciples, “I have been given all authority in heaven and on earth.19  Therefore, go and make disciples of all the nations, baptizing them in the name of the Father and the Son and the Holy Spirit.20  Teach these new disciples to obey all the commands I have given you. And be sure of this: I am with you always, even to the end of the age.”


The word evangelism comes from the Greek word euangelizo, which means “to proclaim or share the good news.” Our modern word gospel comes from the Old English word gôdspel. In Old English, gôd with a long “o” meant “good,” and spell meant “word.” So sharing the gospel meant sharing the good word or good news of Christ.
       
Yet for those who don’t believe in Christ, gospel sharing, or evangelism, often arouses skepticism, resentment, fear, or anger.  The reputation of some televangelists and some street corner preachers may be the reason for this.  For many self-proclaimed Christians, these words often induce feelings of fear and guilt.  Christian Atheists know they should share their faith, but largely because of the strong emotions associated with it, they usually don’t.  


Craig said something that I found to be very interesting.  He said that in his opinion one of the main reasons that Christians don’t share their faith is that they don’t really believe in hell.  His thought is that if we really believed in hell we wouldn’t want anybody to go there and we would do everything that we could to keep them from going.  


He points to research that shows that while almost three out of four people believe in heaven, less than half believe in hell.


I wrote a post about hell;  Hell..What, Where, Who Has  Been There. Here is some of what I wrote:


The experience of being in hell is like being constantly burned.


Matthew 18:9 (NLT)9  And if your eye causes you to sin, gouge it out and throw it away. It’s better to enter eternal life with only one eye than to have two eyes and be thrown into the fire of hell.


Mark 9:43, 45, 47-48 (NLT)43  If your hand causes you to sin, cut it off. It’s better to enter eternal life with only one hand than to go into the unquenchable fires of hell with two hands.45  If your foot causes you to sin, cut it off. It’s better to enter eternal life with only one foot than to be thrown into hell with two feet.  47  And if your eye causes you to sin, gouge it out. It’s better to enter the Kingdom of God with only one eye than to have two eyes and be thrown into hell,48  ‘where the maggots never die and the fire never goes out.’


Hell is compared to darkness.


Matthew 22:13 (NLT)  Then the king said to his aides, ‘Bind his hands and feet and throw him into the outer darkness, where there will be weeping and gnashing of teeth.’


Hell is associated with tremendous grief.


Matthew 8:12 (NLT)  But many Israelites—those for whom the Kingdom was prepared—will be thrown into outer darkness, where there will be weeping and gnashing of teeth.”


It is also associated with great horror.


Mark 9:44 (NKJV)  where 'Their worm does not die, And the fire is not quenched.' 


What the Bible does make clear is that hell is real, eternal, and to be avoided at all costs





We Should Always Be Ready To Share Our Faith


The apostle Peter says, 


1 Peter 3:15 (NLT)  Instead, you must worship Christ as Lord of your life. And if someone asks about your Christian hope, always be ready to explain it. 


Maybe you can relate.  You’d like to be ready for anything, but you’re afraid you might choke under pressure.  So to be prepared.    


Preparation—studying and thinking about what you’ll say—will give you confidence.  Not every chance to share will be set up for you.  But no matter who starts the conversation, if you engage enough people, you’re going to be amazed how many of them are genuinely hungry to hear the truth from an honest, caring heart.


Now while I do believe that we all should evangelize I also believe that some people have a spiritual gift to evangelize and others do not have that gift.  Those with gift 


Evangelist


The divine enablement to effectively communicate the message of Christ to unbelievers who respond in faith and discipleship.


  • Characteristics: This term literal means "messenger of good news". They have a strong desire to communicate the message of salvation to a lost world. A person with this gift often looks and prays for opportunities to work Christ into the conversation. They are regularly "harvesting" lost souls for the kingdom. An evangelist isn't concerned with imparting deep spiritual truths as the teacher is, but they are motivated to help people understand and respond to the basic biblical messages. The Holy Spirit flows out of them in a way that convicts people of their sins. Excuses for inactivity and indecisiveness are exposed by the light of the Spirit. Evangelists are active individual's motivating others to act. They are exciting to be around, like quick results, big crowds, fast change and are constantly moving.


Those of us who don’t have the gift should still be ready to share our faith.  That sounds good but when we get the opportunity most of the time we don’t know where to start.  Most of us are not as knowledgeable as Philip when he talked to the eunuch.  


 Acts 8:34-38 (NLT)34  The eunuch asked Philip, “Tell me, was the prophet talking about himself or someone else?”35  So beginning with this same Scripture, Philip told him the Good News about Jesus.36  As they rode along, they came to some water, and the eunuch said, “Look! There’s some water! Why can’t I be baptized?”38  He ordered the carriage to stop, and they went down into the water, and Philip baptized him. 


So tell your own story but be prepared.  Know what you want to say and how you want to say it.  You may even want to practice it.  In my opinion the best way to share your faith is by your life.  Live in a way that people want to know what makes you tick.  Then when they ask, share your story and your faith.  


Interacting with non-Christian friends and family members has always been a balancing act. We long to share Jesus with them, but we don’t want to push them away. We work to maintain a good relationship AND tell them about the eternal life God offers. It’s always been difficult. 


But thankfully, God has given us timeless, spiritual principles in His Word. Principles, that with the guidance of the Holy Spirit, we can apply to any and every situation we might encounter. 


Here are 5 biblical don’t and 5 biblical do’s


5 Biblical Don’ts


1. Don’t isolate yourself 


Christians often strike the wrong balance with the world. We tend to either isolate ourselves from non-Christians to spiritually protect ourselves or we compromise our Christian values and become more like them. Jesus calls us to the opposite: To go out into the world, but not become like the world. We must stay connected to our non-Christian friends and family members. If we limit or eliminate our time with them, there will be no opportunity for us to influence them for Christ.


John 17:15‭-‬19 NKJV I do not pray that You should take them out of the world, but that You should keep them from the evil one. They are not of the world, just as I am not of the world. Sanctify them by Your truth. Your word is truth. As You sent Me into the world, I also have sent them into the world. And for their sakes I sanctify Myself, that they also may be sanctified by the truth.


2. Don’t argue over religious or cultural issues.


No one wins this kind of argument. Even if we get in a bunch of truth zingers, we won’t change their mind. In fact, our biblical mindset seems silly and foolish to them because they don’t have the spiritual capacity to understand the truth on which it’s founded. 


I Corinthians 2:14 NKJV But the natural man does not receive the things of the Spirit of God, for they are foolishness to him; nor can he know them, because they are spiritually discerned.


Only the Holy Spirit can give them that understanding. We’ll only manage to build a wall between us and them. Instead, work to keep the peace. The possibility of influencing them for Christ is much higher if we maintain a relationship with them.



3. Don’t support or encourage ungodly behavior.


Sometimes Christians condone and show support for sinful behavior in a misguided attempt to appear tolerant and build relationships. But we can be gracious and loving without compromising biblical values. For instance, we can foster a loving relationship with an LGBTQ niece without carrying a banner in a pride parade.


Ephesians 5:6‭-‬11 NKJV Let no one deceive you with empty words, for because of these things the wrath of God comes upon the sons of disobedience. Therefore do not be partakers with them. For you were once darkness, but now you are light in the Lord. Walk as children of light (for the fruit of the Spirit is in all goodness, righteousness, and truth), finding out what is acceptable to the Lord. And have no fellowship with the unfruitful works of darkness, but rather expose them.


 

4. Don’t judge their behavior


At first read, this may sound contradictory to the point above. 


We talked about that on Sunday.  When Jesus said, Matthew 7:1 NIV “Do not judge, or you too will be judged.


He was not prohibiting  was not prohibiting the due process of law and He was not prohibiting the practice of moral judgments.  This is what Jesus was prohibiting, nit-picking, fault finding, and cutting other people down to our size.


Here’s the clarification: No compromise for the Christian. No judgment of the non-Christian. God calls His people to holiness, and He calls the world to Jesus. It is not our responsibility to judge the behavior of the world; God will judge them. Non-Christians will act like non-Christians. Their thinking, attitudes, and actions will reflect the world’s. We cannot expect them to share our values or our behavior. That won’t be possible without them first having a saving relationship with Jesus (See also “Should Christians Judge the World?” and “To Judge or Not to Judge.”).


I Corinthians 5:12‭-‬13 NKJV For what have I to do with judging those also who are outside? Do you not judge those who are inside? But those who are outside God judges. Therefore “put away from yourselves the evil person.”


5. Don’t discuss controversial, worldly  things.


Some topics, like politics, are more explosive than others. Work to keep casual conversations on safe ground. Talking about hot-button issues is not worth risking the relationship. Save your conversation capital for something that matters for eternity.


II Timothy 2:23‭-‬26 NKJV But avoid foolish and ignorant disputes, knowing that they generate strife. And a servant of the Lord must not quarrel but be gentle to all, able to teach, patient, in humility correcting those who are in opposition, if God perhaps will grant them repentance, so that they may know the truth, and that they may come to their senses and escape the snare of the devil, having been taken captive by him to do his will.


5 Biblical Do’s


1. Listen more than you talk


Arguments build walls. Listening breaks them down. If they initiate a conversation on a certain issue that can’t be avoided, ask them why they feel that way. Then listen. Don’t try to change their minds. Don’t tell them they’re wrong. Eventually, respectful listening will open their ears. When they realize we genuinely care about them, they just may ask what we think and why.


James 1:19‭-‬20 NKJV So then, my beloved brethren, let every man be swift to hear, slow to speak, slow to wrath; for the wrath of man does not produce the righteousness of God.


2. Speak with grace


We should always be prepared to speak to specific topics lovingly, respectfully, and biblically when asked outright. Honest, grace-filled conversations within the context of relationship can spark interest in Jesus. When asked about hot button topics, we should answer biblically and truthfully, but these conversations are best had in person, not via text or social media.


Colossians 4:5‭-‬6 NKJV Walk in wisdom toward those who are outside, redeeming the time. Let your speech always be with grace, seasoned with salt, that you may know how you ought to answer each one.


3.Live a fruit-filled life


A person whose life demonstrates the fruit of the Spirit attracts attention. Love, joy, peace, patience, kindness, goodness, gentleness, and self-control are rare qualities today. This kind of counter-cultural character will draw people to us and causes them to wonder what we have that they don’t.


Galatians 5:22‭-‬23 NKJV But the fruit of the Spirit is love, joy, peace, longsuffering, kindness, goodness, faithfulness, gentleness, self-control. Against such there is no law.


4.Model a godly lifestyle


Richard Manning, author of the much-loved “The Ragamuffin Gospel,” famously said: “The greatest single cause of atheism in the world today is Christians, who acknowledge Jesus with their lips, then walk out the door, and deny Him by their lifestyle.” Hypocrisy may just be the biggest deterrent in people coming to Jesus for salvation. But, the opposite is also true. When Christians refuse to conform to the world, the world notices. A Christ-like life points people to Jesus and causes them to glorify God. So let’s live what we preach!


I Peter 2:11‭-‬12 NKJV Beloved, I beg you as sojourners and pilgrims, abstain from fleshly lusts which war against the soul, having your conduct honorable among the Gentiles, that when they speak against you as evildoers, they may, by your good works which they observe, glorify God in the day of visitation.


5.Keep the Gospel the main thing 


The following question is a good guideline for every potential conversation, interaction, reaction, and facial expression. “Will this help or hurt the cause of the Gospel in this person’s life?” If it will reduce the possibility of them hearing and receiving the Gospel, then we shouldn’t say it or do it. Let’s remember their greatest need. They need Jesus!


I Peter 3:15 NKJV But sanctify the Lord God in your hearts, and always be ready to give a defense to everyone who asks you a reason for the hope that is in you, with meekness and fear;


No matter how well we navigate these dos and don’ts, we’ll still step on a few landmines. There will still be some relationship explosions. The more people hate or resist Jesus, the more they will hate or resist us, His followers.


John 15:18‭-‬21 NKJV “If the world hates you, you know that it hated Me before it hated you. If you were of the world, the world would love its own. Yet because you are not of the world, but I chose you out of the world, therefore the world hates you. Remember the word that I said to you, ‘A servant is not greater than his master.’ If they persecuted Me, they will also persecute you. If they kept My word, they will keep yours also. But all these things they will do to you for My name’s sake, because they do not know Him who sent Me.


We are only responsible for our words and actions, not the reaction of the other person. “If it is possible, as far as it depends on you, live at peace with everyone.


Romans 12:18‭-‬19 NKJV If it is possible, as much as depends on you, live peaceably with all men. Beloved, do not avenge yourselves, but rather give place to wrath; for it is written, “Vengeance is Mine, I will repay,” says the Lord.


Let’s ground our lives on biblical principles and follow the leading of the Holy Spirit. Then leave the rest up to God.



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